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Can you attract a soul mate to you?
by Susie and Otto Collins
People typically
think that there is one soul mate for each one of us and when we find
that person, there will be no more conflicts and no major issues to work
through. That’s why people are so upset and disenchanted when they find
that perfect someone who they think is a soul mate and then after a few
months or even weeks, it turns out that there are things about them that
drive them crazy, there are conflicts and the specialness of the
relationship just seems to have disappeared. They think--"I believed
that this person was my soul mate but because we're having conflicts, he
(or she) must not be." They start looking with intensity for their
one "perfect soul mate" and never quite find him or her.
We just don't
agree with all of that. We think that there can be many soul mates
out there for different times in our lives and they come into our lives
to help us with our personal and spiritual growth. A soul mate agrees
to walk with you for awhile to learn and also teach. A soulmate
relationship is a spiritual bond and they create whatever challenges
they need to learn soul lessons. We believe that soulmates can part
when there’s no more growth and learning. Your soulmate can trigger
certain reactions in you that point the direction to what needs to be
healed. We also believe that we draw to us the perfect people we
need in order to learn and grow spiritually and personally.
So can you attract
the type of relationship that you want in your life?
Yes, we believe it
is possible because we and many, many others have done it.
We believe that we
are attracting our soulmates all of the time to us. We believe that you
can apply certain ideas to create a more conscious, connected and loving
relationship, whether you consider the person you are with is your soul
mate or not. We also believe that you can attract a person to you who
will be a conscious co-creator with you. It might require you to let go
of some old ways of thinking that have not served you and commit to
changing.
Julia, who is 63
yr. old, called us the other day, frustrated that she had not been
successful in attracted her "soul mate" to her. She had been
married to a man who was manic-depressant for many years and it was a
very pain time in her life. Her last relationship was with a man she
knew professional and she had wanted it to go further than friendship
but the man was afraid and couldn't commit to anything more. She was
upset that this man seemed to have everything she wanted in a partner
but he was unavailable. We told her to focus on what she
wanted—what she liked about the last relationship with her friend and
keep that feeling in the forefront of her heart and mind. We also told
her to stop all the negative chatter that tells her that she’ll never
find anyone and she may even need to do a completion about the
relationship that had just ended and even the one with her ex-husband.
We told her to focus on loving the people who were already in her life
and work on becoming the kind of person who her ideal partner would be
attracted to.
Sound impossible?
No, it isn't. Here are 7 things you can do to attract your soul
mate relationship to you.
- Decide what
you don’t want and learn from it.
- Decide what
you do want
- Create your
intentions for what you want and remove the blocks to having it
- Align
yourself with what you want and be in gratitude for where you
are—create affirmations that you can believe—“Am I moving closer to
or further from what I want with my thoughts, beliefs and actions?
Get in a place within yourself where you really believe it can
happen. If you don’t, it won’t. What can you be grateful about
your current situation? Devise a strategy to get unstuck when you
get discouraged and down on yourself.
- Use your
emotions to guide you to your perfect partner and to get in touch
with yourself.
- Take you next
logical step
- Trust and Let
go
These 7
strategies come from our course "7 Secrets to Attracting Your Perfect
Partner" and if you want more information about the course, visit
http://www.perfectpartnernow.com
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